5 Life Skills I Want My Kids to Know

August 26, 2015
5 life skills I want my kids to know before they leave home

Preparing for the day that our kids head off on their own is a process that starts from the moment they’re in our arms for the first time. We all want our kids to be happy, healthy, well-rounded, and capable when they step out into the world, knowledgeable about basic life skills. 

My husband and I want to be good stewards of the time we have with our children. We won’t always be here to help them, so we want to use every moment possible now to teach them necessary life skills to help them in the future. This is a list of the 5 basic life skills I want my kids to know before leaving home.

1. Baking

Baking may not seem like an essential life skill to some, but it’s one that is invaluable to me. Most of my childhood memories revolve around the kitchen in some form or another, as I was usually baking something with my mom or Grammy.

Baking is about more than creating memories and having something delicious to eat. Baking also teaches patience, precision, units of measurement, and chemistry. 

2. Home Cooking

Cooking is a life skill that everyone should know. My children will not leave home without knowing how to cook. I want them to be able to transform a pile of random ingredients into a meal. I want them to be so comfortable in the kitchen that they know how to cook without a recipe. Cooking at home saves money, and it nourishes your family, since you aren’t constantly eating foods heavy with preservatives. 

3. Sewing

When I was 5 years old, my mom taught me how to hand stitch. When I turned 8, my sister and I went to sewing classes and learned to read patterns for making clothes. Twenty years later, my clothes making skills are pretty rusty, but I still know my way around a sewing machine, and I still know how to hand stitch. My mother in law wants to teach me how to quilt, and I would love to learn that skill as well. 

Knowing how to sew has allowed me to save money by mending clothes that are torn, so that I can keep using them. In college I was able to help friends when they needed to mend a garment. Now, I don’t have to hire out to a seamstress when my husband’s uniforms need new patches etc.

Sewing may seem like an archaic skill, but I want my kids to be able to create new things and fix their existing clothes. Knowing basic sewing skills can save you time, money, and frustration.

4. Gardening/preserving

Teach your children to garden, and they will never know hunger. Gardening is a life skill that I wish I had learned earlier in life. I started my first garden in 2011, and I will never go back to not having a place to grow my own food.

At our financial worst as a family, we would have gone hungry if it weren’t for the produce from our garden. Starting plants from seeds costs next to nothing, and the produce from our current three planting beds provide a great deal of food for both the summer and the winter (when I have enough to preserve).

I want my kids to always have the joy of knowing how and when to plant different varieties of food. I want them to have the skill of self-sufficiency. Teaching my children how to grow and preserve their own food is my way insurance policy against the hunger of my grandchildren.

5. Home maintenance

I grew up in a home where we never called a “professional” for any of our home repair needs. During the day my dad works as a computer software manager for a government contractor, but he knows carpentry, auto mechanic skills, masonry, electric, and plumbing. My dad was raised in a Mennonite community, and he learned enough skills as a child, in all sectors of home repair, that he never had to call out for service as an adult.

My dad taught me the basics of home repair and maintenance, and I am lucky to have married a man with similar skill sets. Between the two of us, we very rarely call out for professional help. Knowing how to DIY has saved us thousands of dollars.

Raising Capable Kids 

Basic home repair and home building skills, auto-mechanics, and home economics will help our kids know how to handle any situation that life presents to them. We want both our son and daughter to learn from their grandparents and parents the life skills they need to be able to take on any project. I don’t want them beholden to anyone else. Teaching our kids basic life skills will help them transform into capable, independent adults who can take the world by storm. 

What life skills are you teaching your children as they grow into adulthood? What knowledge would you wish for your children to take with them as they step out on their own?

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  • Reply Kayla @ Femme Frugality August 26, 2015 at 10:21 pm

    Great list of skills Kristi! I’m glad to say I have at least a basic knowledge of all of them except canning and preserving. I have had a garden before (when I was a kid I helped my dad) But that is something on my to-do list. :)
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    • Reply moderatemuseblog August 26, 2015 at 10:40 pm

      That’s great, Kayla! Your parents did well then! =]

  • Reply Kirsten August 27, 2015 at 5:11 am

    Gosh, I have said it over and over on my own blog and through comments on other blogs – but I wish I knew how to sew and could pass that on to my girls.

    My own mother was a pretty decent cook. Rarely referenced recipes – just made a dish. She’d often pull out recipes for baking, but barely looked at them. She could sew – even made me clothes once upon a time. But I just had no interest learning these things. I watched NASCAR with my dad. My sister learned sewing and cooking (but has no children to pass these things on to).
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    • Reply moderatemuseblog August 30, 2015 at 10:21 pm

      If we have a down moment I can teach you to hand stitch at FinCon 😉

  • Reply Kay August 27, 2015 at 8:49 am

    This is a super list! I knew how to do just about nothing at 24 when I married. I was home until I was 23 and my mother did everything. I really had to learn basic life skills and fast! I was fortunate that my husband’s mother got him ready for a girl like me, because she and his dad taught him well. Nice going, Kristi! Your children are VERY fortunate! :)
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    • Reply moderatemuseblog August 30, 2015 at 10:20 pm

      I felt the same way about computers and taxes! Once I was married, I didn’t have my dad to file my taxes or my brother to fix my computer problems. We all have things we need to learn once we’re out on our own =] Luckily my husband helped me along to the point I’m at now!

  • Reply Tennille @ Two Kids And A Budget August 27, 2015 at 10:48 pm

    I have two young sons (ages 5 and 3) and there are several life skills that we are teaching them. We have them helping in the garden, we have started them on simple cooking tasks (mixing ingredients), we are already talking to our 5 year old about saving and spending responsibly. As they get older we will teach them things like preserving food, home maintenance, and more.
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    • Reply moderatemuseblog August 30, 2015 at 10:17 pm

      That’s great, Tennille! Your kids will thank you for that someday!

  • Reply Alexandra @ My Urban Family August 28, 2015 at 12:29 am

    I love that you have this list to strive towards! My parents taught me a lot of things, but sometimes I feel like some life necessities fell through the cracks. Like sewing. My mom has been teaching me recently because I’ve finally needed the skill ha
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    • Reply moderatemuseblog August 30, 2015 at 10:17 pm

      My parents prepared me in lots of great ways, but there are some things at which I feel completely inept! Like sports among other things.

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